The Practice Nest: an environment that is conducive to regular, and (this is key!) enjoyable home practice. This article is focussed on the piano, but you can adjust the advice for any instrument.
“I love the term “nest” because it immediately brings to my mind a cosy area in the house where I enjoy spending time.
Below are 4 tips I came across which can help us achieve this: –
1. When choosing a location for your piano, select a space that is lived-in, welcoming, and well-lit. Keep it close to “the action” but not in the action. Your children will gravitate to the piano more often if it is in a central place in your home. Avoid bedrooms, basements and other “put away” places. Feeling shut-off from the family while practicing will inevitably lead to a reluctance to spend time on the piano.
Consider the noise factor – not only from the piano, but also from your family’s day-to-day activities. Your children want to be close by, but not competing with the TV, dishwashers and washing machines.
2. Make the space warm and welcoming. Your children will be encouraged to spend upwards of 30 minutes every day in this space. Is it a happy place to be for this amount of time? Is it a cheerful and welcoming space that will encourage your child to visit the piano often for their own enjoyment? Small adjustments can make a world of difference e.g. adequate lighting, a comfortable bench at the correct height, flowers…
3. Ensure your children have all required materials at hand. If the practice notes are away from the piano, chances are that’s where they will remain J Help your children put together a small basket or bin of everything they may need for home practice – pens, pencils, highlighters, post-it notes, stickers. These will give the children a sense of organization that will spill over into their practice habits. Clear out old sheet music and books they no longer use. Minimize knickknacks and other distractions from the top of the piano. Having the books your children need at their fingertips reliably ensures that no time is spent searching for lost or crumpled music. Get into the habit of placing the piano books here immediately after each piano lesson so they are ready and waiting.
4. Make the “Practice Nest” a communal space. Children of any age appreciate company while they practice. Having a chair, couch, beanbag chair or pillows nearby where family members will be inclined to sit, listen and enjoy the music immediately sets the tone for happy time on the piano. Encourage siblings to stop by and listen quietly, and allow yourself even just 5 minutes to sit and listen with undivided attention each time your children practice. Many memorable moments of laughter will be found in this “nest.”
Plus one more! Adding small surprises to your children’s practice nest (flowers, a hand-written note of encouragement, a small treat, a new sticker pad, a special pen, etc) helps to show that you value the time they are spending on the piano and that you appreciate their effort and dedication.
One giant step towards making the piano a vital part of your children’s day-to-day life (and not a requirement) is making the piano area a place your child looks forward to visiting.
My own apartment has limited space but my digital piano space is the most noticeable area, and even if I weren’t a piano teacher, I would never have to think twice about “visiting” and spending time in that corner 🙂 “
Lola Akwabi grew up in a musical family – her father was a college music lecturer and was thus surrounded by music every day of her childhood. At the age of nine, she started piano lessons and carried on with these when she joined the Kenya High School, which has a strong music tradition. On completion of her secondary education she started off work in the field of administration, while practicing music on the side as a hobby. She later joined the Kenya Conservatoire of Music as Music Instructor and Programmes coordinator. While at the Conservatoire, Lola taught theory of music and the piano to students of all ages – from age five up to 60! She loves all aspects of her teaching and especially enjoys the rare moments when the students get motivated to practice out of their own volition. In 2008, she sat and passed her Dip ABRSM in Piano Performance, under the tutelage of Mrs. Julia Moss (MBE), with whom she continues to take lessons to-date. She has taken Master Classes with Italian pianist Carlo Michini, English pianist and conductor Peter Evans and world-renowned Czech pianist, Libor Novacek.
Lola has been involved in music for close to 20 years. She has been called upon to perform at various State functions and as an accompanist for the Kenya Music Festival competitions, which she first did at age 17. She hosted a Classical Music programme on radio for five years and wrote articles for Classics, a monthly Classical Music magazine for two years. In the year 2012, her article, Peri’s Diary was published in a leading UK magazine, the Music Teacher. She has also had the opportunity to speak to educational institutions on instrumental teaching and history of music. In addition to her Dip ABRSM in Piano Performance, she also recently acquired her Dip ABRSM in Instrumental Teaching.
Although she listens to lots of music, her bias is towards Classical music and her favourite composers are the three B’s – Beethoven, Bach, and Brahms (in that order). In addition to her love for music, Lola is passionate about wildlife conservation, and fosters two elephants, Shira and Sokotei, at the David Sheldrick Wildlife Trust.